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New info re: the Changedance

Posted: Sun Apr 25, 2021 3:12 pm
by Irennan
As perhaps you will remember, the Changedance was a ritual that aspiring male priests of Eilistraee had to undergo in order to complete their training. Due to Eilistraee's nature being tied to motherhood, the difficulty to make male priests, and for male priests to fully cleave to Eilistraee, was overcome through this process. It was a first step to open her clergy to all genders, and it ended with male priests being able to feel their goddess in full, without having to dance the Changedance.

Honestly, I've never like this. It felt forced and rather unfit for Eilistraee. And yes, even though she's a mother to the drow, parenthood is experienced by everyone, so it shouldn't pose an obstacle to making male priests. However, Ed Greenwood has recently made the Changedance no longer a prerequisite, but a tool of self-expression. First, the he explained that it goes both ways, so you can transition from male to female as well as from female to male, with small differences in the ritual. Second, with it no longer being required, now it's granted to people who *want* it. So, essentially, Eilistraee's faith now embraces even more the liberation from gender rules, and provides trans people who want to transition an easily accessible way to do so. It's only fitting, given Eilistraees' focus on empowering the drow to find their own path to happiness, and given the role of freedom of expression in her teachings.

Basically, this was the most obvious way to make lemonade out of lemons, and I'm glad Ed chose to do so.

Re: New info re: the Changedance

Posted: Sun Apr 25, 2021 4:42 pm
by Bhaern Quel
Well it is indeed an improvement.

Re: New info re: the Changedance

Posted: Fri Apr 30, 2021 9:46 pm
by Shir'le E. Illios
I very much like that, yes. I'm very much in favour of Eilistraee being an LGBTQIA+ goddess. ;)


Love -x-x-x-

Shir'le

Re: New info re: the Changedance

Posted: Sat May 01, 2021 3:29 am
by Irennan
I agree entirely. Eilistraee canonically has a soft spot for outcasts, after all. She's a goddess that welcomes marginalized people and makes them feel at home.

Re: New info re: the Changedance

Posted: Sun May 02, 2021 10:57 pm
by Leema Har'gachi
Irennan wrote: Sun Apr 25, 2021 3:12 pm As perhaps you will remember, the Changedance was a ritual that aspiring male priests of Eilistraee had to undergo in order to complete their training. Due to Eilistraee's nature being tied to motherhood, the difficulty to make male priests, and for male priests to fully cleave to Eilistraee, was overcome through this process. It was a first step to open her clergy to all genders, and it ended with male priests being able to feel their goddess in full, without having to dance the Changedance.

Honestly, I've never like this. It felt forced and rather unfit for Eilistraee. And yes, even though she's a mother to the drow, parenthood is experienced by everyone, so it shouldn't pose an obstacle to making male priests. However, Ed Greenwood has recently made the Changedance no longer a prerequisite, but a tool of self-expression. First, the he explained that it goes both ways, so you can transition from male to female as well as from female to male, with small differences in the ritual. Second, with it no longer being required, now it's granted to people who *want* it. So, essentially, Eilistraee's faith now embraces even more the liberation from gender rules, and provides trans people who want to transition an easily accessible way to do so. It's only fitting, given Eilistraees' focus on empowering the drow to find their own path to happiness, and given the role of freedom of expression in her teachings.

Basically, this was the most obvious way to make lemonade out of lemons, and I'm glad Ed chose to do so.
Glad to here this, so little Eilistraee news seems to be around these day. Also.... is it weird that I like the idea of Gender bending whenever I want? or is that just a me thing?

Re: New info re: the Changedance

Posted: Sun May 02, 2021 10:58 pm
by Leema Har'gachi
Irennan wrote: Sun Apr 25, 2021 3:12 pm As perhaps you will remember, the Changedance was a ritual that aspiring male priests of Eilistraee had to undergo in order to complete their training. Due to Eilistraee's nature being tied to motherhood, the difficulty to make male priests, and for male priests to fully cleave to Eilistraee, was overcome through this process. It was a first step to open her clergy to all genders, and it ended with male priests being able to feel their goddess in full, without having to dance the Changedance.

Honestly, I've never like this. It felt forced and rather unfit for Eilistraee. And yes, even though she's a mother to the drow, parenthood is experienced by everyone, so it shouldn't pose an obstacle to making male priests. However, Ed Greenwood has recently made the Changedance no longer a prerequisite, but a tool of self-expression. First, the he explained that it goes both ways, so you can transition from male to female as well as from female to male, with small differences in the ritual. Second, with it no longer being required, now it's granted to people who *want* it. So, essentially, Eilistraee's faith now embraces even more the liberation from gender rules, and provides trans people who want to transition an easily accessible way to do so. It's only fitting, given Eilistraees' focus on empowering the drow to find their own path to happiness, and given the role of freedom of expression in her teachings.

Basically, this was the most obvious way to make lemonade out of lemons, and I'm glad Ed chose to do so.
Glad to hear this, so little Eilistraee news seems to be around these day. Also.... is it weird that I like the idea of Gender bending whenever I want? or is that just a me thing?

Re: New info re: the Changedance

Posted: Tue May 04, 2021 3:13 am
by Irennan
It isn't weird. Gender-fluidity is a thing, so wanting to be able to transition at will surely isn't incomprehensible. I also think that being able to spend time transitioned can help men empathize more with women, and vice-versa.

But for me, if I was offered a changedance, I think I'd take it and never look back.

Re: New info re: the Changedance

Posted: Mon Feb 19, 2024 1:29 pm
by Mags
Irennan wrote: Tue May 04, 2021 3:13 am But for me, if I was offered a changedance, I think I'd take it and never look back.
Yeah, same for me. I wonder if there's a version of the changedance that turns you into your true self.

In any case, I do like the new inclusivity.

Re: New info re: the Changedance

Posted: Tue Feb 20, 2024 4:12 am
by Irennan
Mags wrote: Mon Feb 19, 2024 1:29 pm
Irennan wrote: Tue May 04, 2021 3:13 am But for me, if I was offered a changedance, I think I'd take it and never look back.
Yeah, same for me. I wonder if there's a version of the changedance that turns you into your true self.

In any case, I do like the new inclusivity.
It depends on what you mean by "your true self". I dunno how the ritual works tbh. Like, I dunno whether you can choose your looks, or the ritual reconstructs the appearance you would have if you had one of your chromosomes swapped out. In either case, as a transwoman, it'd be one of the best tings to ever happen to me.

Re: New info re: the Changedance

Posted: Sat Feb 24, 2024 4:44 pm
by Mags
Yeah, I understand, I'm trans as well.

As for one's true self, I used that term to include non-binary people. I don't have that experience myself, so I'm not sure how to be do that, but maybe the change dance would just give you the body you're most comfortable with? In that case, it would be useful for some cis people, as well.

Maybe it could also allow you to experience other body types somehow, too, since that was the original purpose. Not that I think cis people would last long in a differently-sexed body before requesting a change back. :D